And not all narcissists are abusive. These ideas overlap. But they are not the same thing. Narcissism is mainly about self-image. Wanting admiration. Protecting ego. Needing validation. Abusive thinking is different. It is about control and power. Dominating conversations. Silencing disagreement. Punishing independence. Forcing situations to go your way. Abusive thinking often creates two sets … Continue reading Not all abusive people are narcissists.