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People-pleasing is one of the hardest survival patterns to recognize

SpiritualityPeople-pleasing can look humble, but it is often the opposite of humility

Your soulmate is the person you choose to build unity with

SpiritualityYour soulmate is not someone you find, but someone you choose

The Infinite Creator cannot fit inside creation

SpiritualityThe Infinite Creator cannot fit inside creation, yet every moment of creation depends completely on Him

"Some people hate your potential because they do not know how to relate to their own."

SpiritualityAnger is an emotion.

"You can believe life has meaning and still not feel that meaning."

SpiritualityEmotional numbness can become so intense that even sadness is only understood, not felt.

"Low self-esteem does not always sound like, "I am worthless." Sometimes it sounds like. "Everyone who challenges me is jealous, bad or beneath me."

SpiritualityLow self-esteem does not always sound like, “I am nothing.”

sign about darkness

SpiritualityTrauma doesn't bring you closer to the Creator by itself.

Narcissism isn't confidence, it's fear of being vulnerable. - Spirituality

SpiritualityNarcissism isn't confidence, it's fear of being vulnerable.

sign about joy beginning when you notice G-d

SpiritualityBefore joy comes awareness.

sign about why it would have been better not created.

SpiritualityA strange teaching from the Talmud

Sign about when two connect and feel the same emotion

SpiritualityWhy So Many Commandments?

How was it even possible for Adam and Eve to sin? - Spirituality

SpiritualityHow was it even possible for Adam and Eve to sin?

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