Freedom lets you connect.
Survival mode shows up in different ways:
Fight, you use your mind to stay in control.
Flight, you overthink to stay ahead and avoid.
Freeze, you shut down emotionally and hide in your thoughts.
Fawn (people pleasing), you analyze people so you won’t be rejected.
Different patterns, same message from the body:
“Stay safe. Don’t get too close.”
And it works:
Thinking creates distance, and in danger, distance protects you. Intellect is also needed for a relationship to begin.
It’s the beginning of awe, the part of you that tries to understand something greater, G-d’s greatness.
Intellect opens the door. Trust lets you walk through it because deeper awe doesn’t come from thinking, it comes from intimacy, from showing up with honesty and healthy curiosity.
This is why emotional maturity can’t grow in survival mode. Your system is too busy surviving to grow. Emotional maturity begins when survival stops running your life, when trust becomes possible, and intimacy becomes safe.
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