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Lessons From NextSelf


1. A real relationship with the Creator is hard because it doesn’t let you lie to yourself. – 27 January 2026


2. pain, shame, and fear can quietly turn into theology. – 27 January 2026


3. Awe, Joy and bliss are not rewarding. They are the felt experience of practicing relationship
with the Creator of the universe. – 25 January 2026


4. If everyone studies the same deep, moral teachings, unity grows. – 20 January 2026


5. You can’t relate to G-d by protecting your ego. – 20 January 2026


6. You can’t build self-esteem by believing you are loved only through someone else’s suffering. – 20 January 2026


7. It’s sad to live without a framework where suffering has depth, meaning, or relationship. #atheism. – 18 January 2026

8. When you stop fighting reality, something powerful happens. You move from reaction → choice. – 14 January 2026


9. Survival mode can make joy feel annoying or unsafe. Not because joy is wrong. But because survival mode keeps you guarded. – 14 January 2026


10. Some beliefs are hard to change because they once felt like love. – 13 January 2026


11. Our generation is spiritually weaker because there is less trust that The Creator of the universe is good. – 13 January 2026


12. Joy doesn’t come from doing whatever you want. Joy comes from a relationship that feels safe and real. – 12 January 2026


13. Joy isn’t forced happiness. It’s what appears when love has structure. – 12 January 2026


14. Sadness helps you become humble because it helps you stop fighting reality and start listening. – 12 January 2026


15. Narcissism (extreme perfectionism) is like idol worship, one will do or say anything to protect the image they created. – 9 January 2026


16. Perfectionism is like pretending to be infinite in a finite body. – 5 January  2026


17. When you think you have to over-perform to be accepted, you never feel safe enough to be confident. – 5 January 2026


18. Prayer teaches you to act from light without demanding darkness disappear. – 5 January 2026


19. Perfectionism believes some darkness cannot become light. – 5 January 2026


20. Personality often formed for safety. It changes through awareness, compassion, and boundaries. – 4 January 2026


21. Emotional numbness doesn’t mean nothing matters, it means wanting relationship once felt unsafe. – 2 January 2026


22. Survival mode is self-worth built on strategy, like people-pleasing or perfectionism, not truth, not who you are. – 26 December 2025


23. Humility is knowing unconditional love is the core of reality, and your job isn’t to be the source of it, but the channel. – 4 December 2025


24. Loneliness hides inside shame, fear, and sadness. When you put words to them, they become connection again. – 4 December 2025


25. Love isn’t an emotion. It’s the deepest layer of reality. See past fear and shame, and you’ll find the world G-d actually made. – 4 December 2025


26. A relationship with The Creator means giving words to all your fears, shame and sadness. That’s how you feel more awe. – 3 December 2025


27. Human fulfillment requires emotional states beyond survival – joy, connection, meaning. – 24 November 2025


28. Trusting G-d doesn’t mean ignoring fear. It means bringing your fear into relationship. – 21 November 2025


29. Humility without shame stays in the realm of light. But humility that comes from shame actually enters:
• the confusion,
• pain,
• concealment. – 20 November 2025


30. Humility born from shame transforms concealment into a vessel, and only vessels reveal the Infinite. – 20 November 2025


31. Your soul has one real desire: To feel the unconditional love that created the universe. – 19 November 2025


32. Sometimes you’re not reacting to reality, you’re reacting to the belief you learned long ago. – 16 November 2025


33. Living in a world of visible division creates guilt, it’s the body trying to reconnect. Repair happens through self-compassion. – 16 November 2025


34. Repentance requires self-sacrifice, letting go of the parts of you that think you must earn love.
And the moment you let go, joy appears. – 16 November 2025


35. Believing in G-d is easy. It means trusting there’s a Creator. Understanding His unity is hard. – 12 November 2025


36. Joy is guidance. It happens when you guide your thoughts to notice that G-d is kind. Wanting more revealed kindness doesn’t mean He isn’t good. – 12 November 2025


37. Receiving honor you didn’t earn creates loneliness, not connection. Only truth can make respect feel real. – 12 November 2025


38. Our ancestors learned how to survive together – sometimes in peace, often in the shadow of war. Our generation is being asked to learn how to feel together. – 9 November 2025


39. G-d isn’t satisfied just being infinite. He wants to be known through you,  that longing is the most divine quality of all. – 9 November 2025


40. The purpose of creation is unity, so unconditional love, G-ds essence, can finally be experienced as truth. – 4 November 2025


41. The purpose of creation is unity, so unconditional love, G-ds essence, can finally be experienced as truth. – 26 October 2025


42. A narcissistic part believes G-d being good is an opinion, because it confuses goodness with agreement. – 23 October 2025


43. Before creation, your soul already said yes, G-d wanted to give, and your essence chose to be its channel in this world. – 18 October 2025


44. How do you wake up your spiritual self in the morning? Through prayer. We praise G-d for what He does for us. It’s gratitude. – 13 October 2025


45. Unity isn’t about standing out,  it’s about growing together.  Oneness is found in connection. – 12 October 2025


46. Happiness is what happens when life goes your way. Joy is what happens when you see life as a gift. Happiness depends on circumstances; joy depends on presence. – 9 October 2025


47. Chassidus teachings remind you that even in the dark, you were never separate from the light. – 9 October 2025


48. Your soul wasn’t forced into life.  It said yes to being a channel of G-d’s light through acts of justice, kindness and humility. – 30 September 2025


49. The World to Come doesn’t erase people, it erases illusions. Fear says you’re shut out, but truth says only the false layers burn away. The real you always remains. – 29 September 2025


50. When a church says your questions are evil, your freedom from them is damnation, and your pain doesn’t matter,  that isn’t faith. It’s spiritual abuse, not love. – 21 September 2025


51. Depression isn’t proof you’re broken. It’s the body’s natural response to the weight of trauma, built into the human experience. Not a flaw, but a signal calling for compassion and healing. – 21 September 2025


52. every step of justice and repair doesn’t just fix the past… It brings the world closer to the fulfillment of Messianic prophecy. – 21 September 2025


53. The deepest knowledge of G-d is found not in theory, but in His unconditional love. – 21 September 2025


54. G-d is beyond every limit, yet chooses to dwell here, in us. – 21 September 2025


55. Messianic era will be a time when humanity seeks nothing but to know G-d. But real knowing isn’t just ideas. The more awe we feel before His infinity, the more deeply we come to know Him. – 21 September 2025


56. Repentance isn’t about erasing who you are. It’s about uncovering who you’ve always been,  Through awareness, deeper compassion, and stronger boundaries. – 21 September 2025


57. Guilt keeps you stuck in the past. Fear locks you in the future. Shame tells you not to move at all. – 21 September 2025


58. Every mind is different, but every soul longs for G-d. The shofar is that one voice, beyond words, beyond differences. – 20 September 2025


59. Repentance isn’t becoming someone else. It’s returning to your truest self, through awareness, compassion, and healthy boundaries. – 19 September 2025


60. Eternal life isn’t something you “earn.” Thinking so limits G-d’s infiniteness. – 18 September 2025


61. The Messianic Era means more than peace. It means living with pleasure,  spiritual and physical, body and soul as one. – 17 September 2025


62. It’s not just your personality. Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn (people pleasing) are trauma patterns, born from the shock of separation. – 17 September 2025


63. The Messianic era isn’t a free-for-all. It’s the time when G-d’s justice will be revealed. Reparations will be made between individuals and nations. – 14 September 2025


64. When it comes to Hamas and PLO leaders, Arab nations act like no crime is too great, no effort too much, to keep defending them. – 14 September 2025


65. Happiness isn’t about more. It’s about seeing what’s already good. Noticing kindness unlocks it. – 3 September 2025


66. Happiness isn’t waiting at the finish line. It happens when you notice the goodness and kindness already here. – 1 September 2025