Are your survival habits actually spiritual signals?
Your go-to trauma patterns, Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, aren’t flaws.
They’re fallen sparks waiting to be lifted, guiding your soul’s growth:
Fight (disrespect) → Courage + clear boundaries.
Flight (avoidance) → Determination + focus.
Freeze (inaction/rumination) → Mindfulness + self-awareness.
Fawn (people-pleasing) → Empathy + genuine care.
Chassidus teaches: “Every fall is for the sake of a rise.”
Even your trauma patterns are raw material for knowing G-d more. These habits aren’t permanent, they’re stepping stones.
1. Through wisdom/awareness,
2. Compassion, realize your pain matters and you are trying your best.
3. And healthy boundaries, (learning to say no to yourself or others).
Struggles become strengths. Your soul chose your struggles as your growth hack. Not to punish you, but to reveal the sparks hiding inside.
Reflect: Which pattern is holding your hidden gift?
Name it today, and start your transformation.
Struggles allow you to know G-d’s unconditional love more. To heal, you need a powerful ingredient, Unconditional love towards your present and past selves. And G-d is unconditional love itself, so when you heal you know G-d more.
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