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*Correction on previous posts: Chabad Rebbeim explain feelings of aggression are through the Sefirot/energies of Netzach/Victory and Hod

I write G-d below, because a Jewish tradition is to bury pages in the ground with G-d’s name when they are no longer used, instead of throwing in the garbage, it’s an act of reverence, it helps you feel awe, for there to be no concern of erasing His name, I write G-d, I may want to delete and redo a post.*

  1. How Does Repair Happen?

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  1. Jewish Secret to Transform Suffering Into Blessing:

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  1. Why Is It Better to Not Be Created?

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  1. Perfectionism Is Fear of Talking About Feelings:

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  1. How Does Darkness/Suffering Allow You to Know G-d More?

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  1. What Is Misguided Awe?

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  1. How Does Redemption Begin?

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  1. Joy Begins When You Notice G-d Is Kind:

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  1. Awe Grows From Appreciation:

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  1. Adam and Eve Fell for the First Religious Scheme:

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  1. A Child Will Distance From a Parent When There Isn’t Joy in the Relationship:

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  1. How Does Intimacy With G-d Begin?

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  1. AI Won’t Replace Education:

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  1. The Plan That Will Get Every Person Into the Messianic Era:

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  1. How to Practice Compassion to Reduce Guilt:

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  1. The 5 Books of Moses Give Suffering the Most Depth:

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  1. How Is a Relationship With G-d Possible?

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  1. Intimacy vs Intellect:

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  1. Your Worth Comes From the Simplest Truth:

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  1. How to Switch From Survival Mode to Relationship Mode:

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  1. Why Pray at the Grave of a Righteous Individual?

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  1. Christianity Changed the Way People Pray:

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  1. Freeze Can Cause You to Think for Years Without Solving Anything:

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  1. You Can Mirror G-d’s Essence:

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  1. How Is Free Choice Real?

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  1. What Embarrasses Jesus?

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  1. Being Nice Can Be Like Idol Worship:

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  1. Awareness Is a Language:

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  1. Why Is Everyone Living Through Survival Mode Like People Pleasing or Narcissism?

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  1. How Do You Transform Shame Into Humility?

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  1. Narcissists Don’t Care About Your Perspective:

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  1. What Does Jewish Suffering Reveal About G-d?

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  1. How Does Shame Reveal G-dliness the Most?

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  1. Only Physical Life Can Reveal His Essence:

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  1. Healing Begins When You Practice Validation:

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  1. Why Is It Hard to Change Unhealthy Beliefs?

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  1. Why You Shouldn’t Pray Facing Statues:

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  1. Mormon Scheme Explained:

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  1. Joy Happens When You Realize Life Is a Gift From Our Creator:

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  1. Two Connect When They Feel the Same Feeling:

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  1. Misguided Faith Is Better Than No Faith:

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  1. 6 Truths That Require Faith:

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  1. Gift of Being Misguided:

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  1. Practicing Gratitude Is How You Practice Faith:

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  1. Why Does G-d Conceal His Kindness?

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  1. Narcissists Don’t Think to Ask for Your Perspective:

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  1. Why Does Shame Have to Be Revealed?

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  1. Baseless Hatred Happens Through Neglect:

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  1. Physical Life Reveals G-d’s Essence:

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  1. Sadness Turns Into Awe:

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  1. Why Some Parts of Your Personality Won’t Make It to the World to Come:

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  1. You Are Giving G-d What He Desires Most:

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  1. One Needs to Get Out of Survival Mode to Act With Humility:

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  1. King David Showed Us How to Begin Turning Shame Into Humility:

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  1. We All Have a Relationship With G-d:

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  1. How Anxiety Can Turn Into Awe?

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  1. An Image Shrinks Your Wonder:

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  1. Does G-d’s Grace Make You Feel Shame?

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  1. Noahide Laws Don’t Teach Falsehoods About G-d:

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  1. Refining Your Personality to Spread G-dliness:

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  1. Joy Begins When You Notice G-d Is Kind, It’s How G-dliness Spreads:

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  1. When the Nervous System Is Stuck in Trauma, It Plays Fantasies:

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  1. Messianic Era Is About Healing Our Nervous Systems:

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  1. A Narcissist Can’t Stop Guilt From Turning Into Shame:

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  1. When Love Becomes Control:

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  1. Joy Isn’t Denial, It Happens When You Open Your Eyes to G-d’s Kindness in This Moment:

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  1. G-d Didn’t Make Life Hard to Test You:

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  1. Forgiveness Doesn’t Erase Anger, Anger Needs Change:

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  1. Trauma Replaces Compassion With Survival Patterns:

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  1. Trauma Turns Anger Into Hatred Instead of Healing:

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  1. G-d Wants Your Life to Be His Home:

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  1. Your Soul Is Always Pure:

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  1. After Death, a Soul Reflects:

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  1. People Pleasing Is Depression in Disguise:

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  1. Strength Is Having the Courage to Disappoint Gracefully:

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  1. Everything Is a Metaphor for G-d’s Unconditional Love:

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  1. G-d’s Love Doesn’t Change, Our Awareness Does:

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  1. Understanding G-d With Your Mind vs Pleasure:

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  1. How Does Repentance Begin?

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  1. You Are Inside Oneness, There Is No Outside to G-d:

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  1. Nigunim Allow You to Feel Deeper Awe:

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  1. How Do You Feel Through Prayer “When I’m With You, I Desire Nothing on Earth”?

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  1. Shame Allows G-d’s Kingship to Be More Revealed:

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  1. Healing Is About Rewriting Your Relationship With Trauma:

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  1. Spirituality Is About Enjoying the Mystery:

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  1. Spirituality Is About Facing Loneliness With G-d:

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  1. Messiah Isn’t Someone Who Suddenly Appears:

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  1. The Rebbe Revealed What Moses Concealed:

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