Ever felt totally disconnected, even though you’re doing what you love?
Here’s something most people miss:
Creativity pulls you outward.
Think about it:
When you paint, write, build, or plan, your mind is busy shaping something new.
That’s amazing, but it’s an outward flow of energy.
And intimacy?
That’s the exact opposite.
Why Does Intimacy Pull You Inward?
Intimacy pulls you inward.
It’s about quietly connecting with someone (or yourself) in a deep, peaceful way.
The Jewish idea of Shabbat captures this perfectly:
During the week, we create, build, and do.
On Shabbat, we stop creating, completely.
Why?
Because constant creativity blocks true intimacy with G-d.
It keeps you busy instead of allowing you to deeply connect.
What Happens When You Never Stop Creating?
Ever wonder why you feel lonely even after a productive day?
Maybe you’ve been creating so much, you’ve forgotten how to just be.
How Can You Make Room for Real Intimacy?
Here’s something simple you can try:
1. Pause your creative tasks once a week.
Just pick one day (it doesn’t even need to be religious).
2. Focus on quiet connection:
Take a walk without goals.
Have a conversation without fixing anything.
Just sit quietly with yourself for a bit.
Notice how differently you feel when you’re not busy creating.
Remember:
Intimacy isn’t built by doing more, it’s discovered by doing less.
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