A lesson on people pleasing

and self centeredness from Torah.

Tzvi Hirsch of Nadvorna, in Tzemach Hashem LeTzvi, explains that an idol isn’t just a statue or object—it’s the energy of people pleasing. 

Rabbi YY Jacobson puts it like this: an idol is like a relationship where the “idol” will accept anything,

While the person who worships it takes advantage of that acceptance to get what they want without really respecting the idol’s true value.

“People pleasing is an opposite of being humble”

If you want to go deeper into this work, explore the NextSelf 2026 and 2025 Indexes.

It organizes the core ideas on awareness, compassion, boundaries, and how they build real relationship and responsibility with The Creator.

NextSelf 2026 Index

NextSelf 2025 Index