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Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Why is connecting with G-d so complicated?

Why is connecting with G-d so complicated?

Why is connecting with G-d so complicated? I’ve spent years feeling overwhelmed about spirituality. Ever wonder why it feels like G-d is so far, like He’s hiding from you? You’re not alone. Here’s the thing: Before the beginning, G-d’s presence was literally everywhere. Infinite, perfect, completely connected. Then something unusual happened: G-d chose to “hide” […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

What if understanding G-d was way simpler than you thought?

What if understanding G-d was way simpler than you thought?

I used to feel lost anytime someone talked about “connecting with G-d.” I’d think:  “Isn’t G-d infinite?  How could I possibly matter?” Then, I came across an idea based on Kabbalah. It completely changed how I understood spirituality. Here’s the simple truth: G-d didn’t create the world because He was bored or lonely—He created it […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

For a long time, I felt emotionally numb and disconnected from G-d.

For a long time, I felt emotionally numb and disconnected from G-d.

Whenever I made mistakes, I’d move into fear—believing G-d couldn’t possibly care about me unless I was perfect. This made me freeze up or desperately try to please Him, hoping He wouldn’t abandon me. But I learned something powerful: Nothing about G-d changes because of our mistakes or struggles. Think of a parent with their […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Life feels confusing sometimes because G-d hides Himself on purpose.

Life feels confusing sometimes because G-d hides Himself on purpose.

Yeah, it sounds strange—but here’s why: If you directly felt the source of your life’s energy—G-d’s presence—you’d dissolve in awe. (your usual sense of “me” fades away) It’s like staring straight into the sun: The brightness would blind you instantly. Instead, G-d dims His energy (think sunglasses for your soul) so you can remain independent. […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Sometimes connecting with G-d felt impossible for me.

Sometimes connecting with G-d felt impossible for me.

I’d try so hard, hoping to feel something special, but instead, I’d end up frustrated. It felt like trying to talk to someone at a noisy party, you’re speaking clearly, but they’re just not hearing you. Have you ever felt that kind of frustration? Then one day I realized something huge: Humility isn’t about putting […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Feeling like you just don’t “get” G-d? 

Feeling like you just don’t “get” G-d? 

Maybe that’s exactly the point. I used to think if G-d is infinite, He must be impossible to really understand. And, it made me feel lonely—like I was missing something everyone else had. But here’s what I learned: G-d isn’t just infinite. He also knows how to “step down” and show up in limited, understandable […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Connecting with G-d feels impossible sometimes, right?

Connecting with G-d feels impossible sometimes, right?

How can I—just a regular, limited human—possibly relate to an unlimited, infinite G-d? I used to struggle with this question, too. I’d feel lonely, overwhelmed, and disconnected, wondering if my human experience even mattered. But then I learned something simple and powerful: We don’t connect with G-d by becoming powerful or smarter. We connect by […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

What if the reason you feel far from G-d is simpler than you think?

What if the reason you feel far from G-d is simpler than you think?

I used to think having a close spiritual connection needed special things: 1. Specific prayers2. beautiful traditions3. Nice decorations But something always felt missing. Then I thought: What if the best way to connect with G-d is already inside you—nothing extra needed? Think about this: When you’re stressed out, adding more stuff usually doesn’t help, […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Ever feel totally lost trying to connect with G-d?

Ever feel totally lost trying to connect with G-d?

Me too.  Sometimes the whole thing just feels overwhelming. I used to wonder: “Why are there SO many people around?  Wouldn’t life be simpler if it was just me?” Then I realized something that changed everything: All these billions of people are actually here for YOU. Sounds strange? Here’s what I mean: 1. G-d is […]

Author: Binyamin Rutstein

Ever wondered why G-d seems hidden?

Ever wondered why G-d seems hidden?

Me too. I used to think: “If G-d is so loving, why doesn’t He just show Himself clearly?” Here’s a surprising truth: Kings don’t rule their own children—they nurture them. To truly reign, a king needs subjects who feel separate. G-d’s the same way. He intentionally hides to let us feel independent.  Not because He […]

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