Many people say “everyone is greedy” as if it’s just a fact. “Everyone has desires. Not everyone has the same level of power” But that statement often hides something. It quietly removes responsibility from the people with the most power. Because if everyone is greedy, then no one has to examine how much they take, […]
does not hear “feelings” the way a healthy person does. “They don’t thin you’re being honest. They think you’re trying to make them gullible. Because in their mind, feels are not for connection. They are toold people use to gain control. “ They hear it as a threat. Because in their mindset, relationships are about […]
that when a city is under siege, it should not be surrounded from all four sides. “The Rambam rules that even during the siege, when resources are being cut off, a city should not be surrounded from all four sides. One side must be left open so people can escape and live.” One side must […]
is not just the rabbi with the biggest name, the most institutions, or the most admiration. “The leader of the generation is the Rabbi whose teachings are guiding the most Jewish people to real Teshuva. The clearest proof of leadership is helping soulds return to the Creator in a real way. Jesus was never ordained […]
constant goodness. “Reward and punishment isn’t later. It’s the kind of life your nervous system ends up living with.” That does not change. But creation was built with structure. If you don’t relate to the source of your life in a healthy way, your experience of life changes. Reward and punishment is not something that […]
“Relationship with the Creator starts when you think about Him and notice His kindness” A leader who takes ideas about the Creator and makes them real enough to change how people think and act. There is also a Moses inside you. The part of your personality that can keep bringing your mind back to what’s […]
but that does not automatically mean they are practicing an intimate relationship with the Creator. “Looking religious may only show that someone fears punishment. It does not prove trust, closeness, or a healthy relationship with the creator.” A person can be driven mainly by fear. Fear of punishment, fear of doing wrong, fear of stepping […]
From His perspective, there is no separation. No conflict. No lack. “The creator is always the source of life and goodness. But he built a world where if we walk away from relationship, He allows that distance to be felt all the way down to the body.” But He didn’t create a world to stay […]
to be full of revealed goodness. “People pleasing, abuse, and avoidance may all come from the same place. A person who never learned how to handle feeling alone.” Not basic goodness. Goodness that can be recognized, chosen, received, and held without shame. But to understand suffering, we first have to understand what we mean by […]
like a machine. He allows you to have fantasies, even dark or abusive ones. Not because He agrees with them. Because He gave you real choice. If those thoughts were blocked, you wouldn’t be choosing goodness. You would be programmed into it. And programmed goodness has no dignity. So the thoughts are allowed. But the […]