Here’s something surprising:
Believing in one Creator isn’t just about religion.
It means there’s purpose in every moment of your life.
Nothing is random.
You’re never truly alone.
But here’s the struggle:
Sometimes your mind tricks you into feeling stuck.
It’s called learned helplessness, those quiet thoughts whispering:
1. “Why bother? It won’t work anyway.”
2. “I’m not good enough.”
Another way to spot learned helplessness is noticing your adaptive trauma patterns:
1. Fight: Getting defensive or angry easily.
2. Flight: Avoiding uncomfortable situations or emotions.
3. Freeze: Feeling stuck or unable to act.
4. Fawn: Constantly people-pleasing, neglecting your own needs.
These patterns help us feel in control but keep us disconnected.
Sound familiar?
This mindset silences your soul, that spark inside you that’s naturally good and powerful.
But here’s what you can do.
Right now.
To reconnect:
1. Notice these negative thoughts and patterns.
Just observing them weakens their power.
2. Choose tiny actions of kindness.
Even small steps, like a kind word or a deep breath, give your soul a voice again.
You don’t need massive change overnight.
Just one thoughtful action, right now, can shift your whole day.
Remember this:
Your soul is good, always.
Every moment you choose kindness, your soul speaks louder.
Life isn’t about avoiding problems, it’s about realizing you’re never alone when facing them.
"Learned helplessness stops us from giving our soul a voice."
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.