Not because they don’t want to. But because they never learned how.
Their nervous system learned other strategies instead:
control
avoidance
people-pleasing
constant busyness.
Security was never practiced.
So they keep solving life without it.
“Some people never learned how to feel secure. so they practice survival instead. Control. Avoidance. People pleasing. Not because they love those patterns. Because those are the only ones they were every taught.”
Explore the NextSelf 2026 Index and 2025 Index. Start with this post explaining the world of souls.
They organize the core ideas on awareness, compassion, boundaries, and how they build real relationship and responsibility with The Creator.
Update: When an individual trusts the Creator is good, awe [wonder, humility and fear], which is felt after noticing patterns of infinite wisdom, causes love to be felt and that love includes sadness because His goodness can always be more revealed and joy.
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