1. Fear is the fuel. If guilt, shame, or threats of punishment are what keep you “loyal,” that’s not faith, it’s control. 2. Your worth = obedience. When your value depends only on how well you follow rules or leaders, you’re trapped in a scheme. 3. Only they have the truth. If you’re told “we’re […]
Out-of-control disease activity wrecked my nervous system. I often needed a wheelchair, I had to follow a diet of mostly beans, carrots, broccoli, Quinua and tahini to live with less pain. Here’s something people don’t always realize: Disease itself can be traumatic. It shocks your body. It overwhelms your mind. It traps your nervous system […]
The ego craves comfort. It longs to belong. It hides inside systems that promise safety without truth. But here’s what most people miss : Your soul is always pure. It doesn’t need schemes. It only longs for connection, love, and G-d. The ego is separate. It’s not your soul. It’s the part that fears, compares, […]
Which country will be the first to ban the Mormon church? Why ask? Because the Mormon system doesn’t just preach,it conditions, controls, and manipulates its followers through fear, secrecy, and a culture of unquestioned obedience. Some nations are starting to wake up to the reality that “religious freedom” can also mean “freedom for religious schemes.” […]
“Spiritual abuse is legal, because the chains are invisible “ Christianity can work like spiritual slavery. Not chains on your body. Chains on your mind. Many churches teach people to think like this: • If you obey, you’re good and loved. • If you question or doubt, you’re doing something wrong. • Leaders are always […]
In the Hebrew Bible… Revelation was public — Sinai was heard by an entire nation. Prophets spoke words tested by the community, not hidden away. God’s covenant was with the nation of Israel, rooted in their land and history. Joseph Smith’s story? Private visions. A hidden book no one else could examine. No national covenant, […]
1. Narcissism = a praise addiction. “If you admire me, I’m safe.” Control over your opinion. 2. Abusiveness = a power/control addiction. “If I control you, I’m safe.” Control over your behavior. 3. People-pleasing = an acceptance addiction. “If you approve of me, I’m safe.” Control over my own voice (by restraining it). And here’s […]
“You want me to control you.” That’s how they live with what they do. And it shows up in small ways: “I’m just protecting you.” “You’d be lost without me.” “I do so much kindness.” But the truth? You have to keep reminding them, over and over, “My boundary stands.” Boundaries aren’t control. They’re self […]
“The secret to awe isn’t knowing everything. It’s knowing the next right thing. “ The world feels HUGE. So many choices. So many “what ifs.” And then you learn: There are 7 Noahide Laws — G-d’s guidebook for all people. They’re simple. They’re clear. They tell you what to do in any situation. Like what […]
“What if people pleasing-pleasing is just depression with a smile on it’s face?” It’s fear dressed up as kindness. At its root, it’s fear of rejection: “If I show you the real me… maybe you’ll walk away.” But here’s another part, people-pleasing is also a form of depression. It’s the sadness of not feeling safe […]