That phrase has excused abuse at every level:
In families — abusive parents, partners or siblings.
In institutions — exploiters in power.
In governments — corruption hidden.
And it’s the same excuse that helps religious schemes survive.
The Mormon church thrives because people say:
“But look how kind they are.”
Kindness in one moment doesn’t erase harm in another. If someone’s kindness keeps you silent about their abuse,
that kindness has been weaponized.
Don’t confuse kindness with safety.
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.