, constantly taking two steps forward and one step back?
You’re not alone—here’s an eye-opening truth:
Real growth often feels messy.
Think of it like climbing a rock wall:
1. To reach higher, you must let go of your current safe hold.
2. That brief moment between holds might feel uncertain or scary—but it’s the only way up.
Struggling with overwhelm or worried about upsetting others when setting boundaries?
Here’s a powerful insight: Clear boundaries aren’t fences—they’re ‘climbing holds’ helping you reach healthier connections.
Try this practical tip today:
1. Before saying yes, pause and gently ask yourself, “Is this helping me climb, or will it keep me stuck?”
2. Remind yourself: “Every honest ‘no’ creates space for a more meaningful ‘yes.'”
Feeling stuck right now?
1. Choose one simple, intentional action like saying thank you to someone specific, taking three slow breaths, or saying no kindly to a small request.
2. These small moves build powerful momentum.
Remember:
You’re not stuck; you’re shifting your grip.
(hopefully the shift-stage won’t last too long)
Keep climbing—the view from the next level is worth it. Because real growth doesn’t look like peace. It looks like temporary, necessary chaos.
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.