Of course not—it needs constant support.
Here’s something surprising:
That’s exactly how creation itself works. Everything around you—the whole universe—exists because it’s constantly supported and renewed by divine energy.
Feeling overwhelmed? Constantly saying “yes”? Struggling to set boundaries without feeling guilty?
Your boundaries, like upright water, aren’t your default state. They need intentional, continuous support.
Here’s an idea to help:
Remind yourself daily:
“My boundaries aren’t automatic—they require intention, just like the world requires constant divine support.”
Try this practical script next time you’re unsure:
“Keeping this boundary is how I show kindness to myself.”
Take a moment now:
Visualize yourself but firmly supporting your boundaries. Notice how your confidence grows.
Takeaway:
Boundaries—just like the universe—need attention to stay strong.
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.