How you treat yourself sets the rules for how others treat you.
Here’s what’s going on:
1. Imagine your self-worth is a mirror.
2. If you treat yourself poorly (like ignoring your feelings or saying “yes” when you want to say “no”), others naturally follow that example.
3. But when you treat yourself with compassion, people automatically start treating you better too.
Here’s the real magic:
1. How you feel about yourself changes how deeply connected you feel spiritually.
2. Self-compassion isn’t just nice—it’s the secret ingredient for feeling close to G-d and everyone else.
Simple solution:
1. Next time you feel overwhelmed or scared to speak up, pause.
2. Say to yourself: “Hey, it’s okay to feel this way. I matter, and my perspective matters.”
3. Watch how quickly you feel safer, calmer, and more confident.
Why it works:
1. Your self-compassion tells others—and even G-d—exactly how to treat you.
2. If you want better connections, start by upgrading how you treat yourself.
Think about this:
You can’t say ‘no’ until you know why you’re saying ‘yes’.
Try it today—notice how everything shifts.
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.