G-d didn’t make life hard to test you. He made it meaningful, if one receives an undeserved gift, he feels ashamed to enjoy it. He gave us the chance to earn our joy.

If G-d is perfect,

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why did He create a world with struggle?

Why was Adam given work in paradise?

Why not just make life easy, filled with blessings without effort? Even before Adam sinned, Torah (Hebrew Bible) says his purpose was to work and protect the garden.

He was placed in paradise, not to relax, but to cultivate it. The Hebrew word for “work,” avodah, contains the word ‘ibud’ – tanning leather. Hard, transforming labor.

The same word used for serving G-d.

Were we made for comfort or for meaning?

From the beginning, human beings weren’t designed for ease. We were designed for meaning. When G-d sent Moses to redeem the Jewish people, He didn’t say, “You’ll be free and comfortable.” He said: “You will serve Me upon this mountain.”

Material freedom wasn’t the goal. Purpose and relationship were. Because through service, we don’t just receive from G-d, we become close to Him.

Why would a loving G-d allow struggle?

Every act of effort builds the bond between the Creator and the created. 🤍 and every struggle makes the yearning deeper. Through effort, love stops being a feeling and becomes a relationship. But why would a loving G-d make struggle part of an entire life? Because He didn’t want to give us the bread of shame.

What is the bread of shame?

We see in human nature: if one receives an undeserved gift, with absolutely no effort on his part, he feels ashamed to enjoy it.

In the words of the Jerusalem Talmud: “The bride turns aside as she eats.” Because she feels she has not yet had a chance to earn what her husband gives her, ‘ she turns her face in shame.’ So G-d made life this way, not to test us, but to honor us.

Why does G-d want our joy to be earned?

He gave us the chance to earn our joy in the world to come, to become partners in creation, to taste goodness without chronic shame.

When you turn effort into purpose, you begin to feel joy in what your own hands helped build.

That’s why we’re here: to make G-d’s goodness ours, through the beauty of our effort.

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Questions people ask

What does avodah, the Hebrew word for work, mean?

Avodah is the Hebrew word for work, and inside it sits the word ibud, which means tanning leather. That is hard, transforming labor. The same word is used for serving G-d, and Adam’s purpose in the garden was to work and protect it, even before he sinned.

What does “You will serve Me upon this mountain” mean?

When G-d sent Moses to redeem the Jewish people, He did not say they would be free and comfortable. He said they would serve Him. Material freedom was not the goal — purpose and relationship were, because through service we do not just receive from G-d, we become close to Him.

Why does the Jerusalem Talmud say the bride turns aside as she eats?

Because she feels she has not yet had a chance to earn what her husband gives her, so she turns her face in shame. She is the picture of the bread of shame — the discomfort a person feels when they enjoy a gift no effort of theirs earned.

Does struggle mean G-d is testing me?

No. G-d made life this way not to test us, but to honor us. He gave us the chance to earn our joy in the world to come, to become partners in creation, and to taste goodness without chronic shame. Every act of effort builds the bond between the Creator and the created.

“G-d didn’t make life hard to test you. He made it meaningful, if one receives an undeserved gift, he feels ashamed to enjoy it. He gave us the chance to earn our joy.”

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Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.