because connection happens through mirroring.
His essence is unconditional love, and you reflect that love through the way you act.
Why does awe come before love?
But before you can channel love, you have to first feel awe.
Awe relaxes the nervous system, opens your emotions, and gives you enough space to recognize something greater than fear.
Without awe, love collapses into survival mode.
How do trauma patterns distort the mirror?
And that’s where trauma patterns distort the mirror:
1. People-pleasing looks like love, but it’s fear.
2. Avoidance looks like peace, but it’s numbness.
3. Narcissism looks like confidence, but it’s shame.
How do you build a real relationship with Him?
To build a real relationship with Him, you have to heal the parts of you that learned to survive by avoidance, hiding, or controlling.
A true relationship begins when you choose:
• love with boundaries,
• compassion with honesty,
• responsibility without ego.
And awe is what makes those choices possible.
Because awe reconnects you to something larger, and love becomes the way you participate in it.
That’s when your actions become a small reflection of His unconditional love, and the relationship finally feels real.
More guides:
How does anxiety can turn into awe?
Sadness turns into awe:
Sadness isn't the opposite of awe.
Singing helps feelings of awe last longer –
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls, and what does it mean to be light? And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
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