—but exhausting to you.
You’re overwhelmed because setting clear boundaries feels risky, like you might lose something valuable. But what if clarity about your boundaries was the very thing keeping everything together?
Think about this powerful spiritual idea:
Absolutely nothing exists—not you, not the people around you, not even the air you’re breathing. Unless it’s actively willed into existence every single moment by a greater force.
What does this mean practically for your boundaries?
Your ability to set clear limits confidently comes from recognizing this ongoing connection:
1. When you clearly express what you need, you’re aligning yourself with your true source—where your clarity, confidence, and strength actually come from.
Try this type of boundary-setting phrase today:
1. “I really care about us, and for me to be myself, I need to stick to this boundary right now.”
And use this quick mental reframe:
2. Before saying “yes,” pause and remind yourself: “I exist intentionally, moment by moment. My clarity and boundaries are an essential part of this purpose.”
Remember this simple, powerful idea:
Nothing exists accidentally.
Your boundaries aren’t barriers;
They’re the pathways through which your purposeful existence shines brightest.
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.