does not hear "feelings" the way a healthy person does. They hear it as a threat. Because in their mindset, relationships are about control, not connection. So when someone starts talking about feelings, they don't...
about building a synagogue show that people need more than just the right ideas to feel the Creator's presence. The Creator is everywhere, but we are not aware everywhere, and our felt awareness changes throughout the...
as the leader of the generation, then who do they accept? After Moses, leadership didn't disappear. It's the rabbi whose teachings are guiding the most Jewish people toward real relationship with the Creator. I think...
will not just believe that the Creator exists. They will live with a felt sense that their life matters to the Creator, and that their personality matters too. Not just whether they technically did the right thing...
that when a city is under siege, it should not be surrounded from all four sides. One side must be left open, so people can escape and save their lives. This applies even when restricting resources during a siege...
is not just the rabbi with the biggest name, the most institutions, or the most admiration. It is the rabbi whose teachings actually help the most Jewish people do teshuva, return to the Creator, and build a real life...
constant goodness. That does not change. But creation was built with structure. If you don't relate to the source of your life in a healthy way, your experience of life changes. Reward and punishment is not something...
A leader who takes ideas about the Creator and makes them real enough to change how people think and act. There is also a Moses inside you. The part of your personality that can keep bringing your mind back to what's...
but that does not automatically mean they are practicing an intimate relationship with the Creator. A person can be driven mainly by fear. Fear of punishment, fear of doing wrong, fear of stepping out of line, fear of...
From His perspective, there is no separation. No conflict. No lack. But He didn't create a world to stay in His perspective. He created a world where our perspective matters. That's why the Hebrew Bible speaks about...
Not basic goodness. Goodness that can be recognized, chosen, received, and held without shame. But to understand suffering, we first have to understand what we mean by The Creator. The Infinite Creator is not a bigger...
like a machine. He allows you to have fantasies, even dark or abusive ones. Not because He agrees with them. Because He gave you real choice. If those thoughts were blocked, you wouldn't be choosing goodness. You...
the gentile soul and the Jewish soul are different personalities. That does not just mean different labels. It means different interests, different values, different desires. The Jewish soul wants Torah. It wants...
as the leader of our generation because the deepest needs of this generation did not outgrow his response. The main role of a leader of the generation is not just to be physically present. It is to help people...
"You don't become someone new after this life. you continue as the personality you practiced being." You continue as the person you practiced being. Same personality. Same emotional patterns. Same way you relate to...
being a baal teshuva means fixing your past. It doesn't. It means returning to a relationship. Think about it simply: If someone wants a relationship with you, but you feel ashamed, angry, or not good enough, you...
Some Chabad chassidim teach that the Lubavitcher Rebbe is the Messiah. But the claim does not begin with a slogan. It begins with Torah sources that explain: The leader of the generation will be the Messiah, and the...
There are only a few situations that are meant to feel that serious. A wedding is not one of them. A holiday is not one of them. Hosting guests is not one of them. But when you go into debt for them, you end up living...
, start with one question: "Am I still loved?" If you answer no, you build your life on randomness. "There is no deeper goodness here." If you answer yes, faith begins. "Even if I do not understand what is happening...
It keeps the mind busy scanning, predicting, and trying to stay in control. It asks: What is wrong? What could go bad? How do I protect myself? How do I not get hurt again? That kind of thinking can feel smart. But...
Not basic goodness. Goodness that can be recognized, chosen, received, and held without shame. But to understand suffering, we first have to understand what we mean by The Creator. The Infinite Creator is not a bigger...
because you are the same. You are finite. The Creator is infinite. You are created. The Creator is the source of everything. Like a subject and a king, you are not alike at all. So on your own, there is no natural...
But values are also shaped by emotional skill. Because you do not only choose from ideas. You choose from the emotional capacities you have developed. If you have little self-compassion, you may admire harshness...
-repair can only happen in the physical world. Because this is where you can still choose. This is where you can learn to confess: "I was wrong." "I want to begin again." "I want to be honest." "I want to repair."...
