, from others, and from themselves.
What does the soul want when shame says hide?
But the soul is always pure, and the soul does not want distance.
The soul wants relationship, repair, and the courage to stay present.
What does healthy giving look like?
It adds something deeper to the personality: the ability to be giving in a healthy way, not from fear, not from people-pleasing, and not from trying to disappear, but from connection, honesty, and self-respect.
What can I say when a shame fantasy comes up?
“When a shame fantasy comes up, remind yourself again and again: “I do not want to disappear I want relationship.”
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Related guides:
Why was Adam and Eve created without emotional skills?
How does the world of souls work? Maimonides [Rambam] describes the World to Come as fully spiritual
The only healthy belief system for the nervous system (not Buddhism/Atheism): Beliefs are not only an idea in your mind
You’ve only got 7 types of thoughts: The Chernobyl Maggid, a student of the Baal Shem Tov, teaches that we only have seven types of thoughts.
Psychological structure of suffering turning into goodness: The Infinite Creator wants creation to be full of revealed goodness.
The Creator’s giving can become more revealed or hidden inside creation: Kabbalah and Chassidus help explain the inner meaning of the Creator's original instructions to humanity, given over 5,700 years ago.
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls, and what does it mean to be light? And my Youtube. Content is published to this facebook first and a few days later, to the blog.
The blog lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
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