That belief often stays hidden.
Instead of fully noticing your pain, you explain it away:
“Maybe I deserve this.”
“Maybe this is just my life.”
“Maybe the only way to grow is through more pain.”
But Chassidus teaches that this is not bitachon [trust].
The Creator may allow challenges because they help us grow, repair, or reveal greater goodness.
But suffering is never the goal.
The goal is revealed goodness.
To strengthen trust, you have to notice your suffering and learn to say:
“I do not deserve suffering.”
That does not mean you have never made mistakes.
It means your mistakes do not make misery your rightful future.
Consequences can teach.
Teshuvah [return to relationship] can repair.
But the Creator wants your growth, not your misery.
The more your nervous system expects punishment, the harder trust becomes.
The more it learns to say, “I do not deserve suffering, and the Creator desires my good,” the deeper trust becomes.
Bitachon is not pretending life has no challenges.
It is teaching your mind and nervous system that the Creator’s goodness is greater than your mistakes.
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Every belief contains mysteries, some are more reasonable then others: https://nextself.ai/spirituality/biggest-question-spirituality-not-only-existence-cause/
Emotionally healthy beliefs about the world of souls: https://nextself.ai/spirituality/maimonides-rambam-describes-the-world-to-come-as-fully-spiritual/
Misguided awe and extreme people pleasing are both like idol worship: https://nextself.ai/spirituality/one-unhealthy-spiritual-pattern-misdirected-awe/
Why was suffering built into creation? [psychology + philosophy explained] https://nextself.ai/spirituality/modern-psychology-explains-generational-trauma/
Explore the NextSelf Blog. Start with this post explaining the world of souls. And my Youtube.
It lists all the difference patterns to study, understanding patterns is how one can develop 'Daas' [felt knowing].
Update: As awe, trust, and love deepen, they can allow greater openness and intimacy with the Creator. That intimacy can include sadness when you notice how much more of His goodness can be revealed.