https://nextself.ai/spir%E2%80%A6/rumination-isnt-problem-solving/ How to get out of feeling guilty? https://nextself.ai/%E2%80%A6/intense-guilt-doesnt-mean-youre-bad/ How does prayer transform hatred into awe and...
to believe in an Infinite Creator and still trust that He is good. That structure is relationship and responsibility. Not control. Not blind positivity. Not pretending suffering does not exist. Relationship and...
he asked to be buried in white shrouds. His teacher, Rabbi Yochanan, had asked to be buried in clothing that was between white and black. White symbolized being brought back among the righteous at the time of...
a body and a soul, beyond all reasons. The tragedy of the story, and the repair that happens afterward, show that The Creator did not choose us because of our positive qualities, but beyond all reasons, for a life of...
Once, he was not careful enough about reading by lamplight on Shabbos, and he ended up tilting the lamp [considered a form of kindling, it causes oil to flow to the wick]. What did he do next? He wrote it down: "I...
"The renowned Sages R' Yochanan and Reish Lakish attributed all their greatness in Torah to the fact that they once saw Rebbi's fingers when they slipped out of his glove (yerushalmi Beitzah 5:2)." Awe is a blend of...
Not because nothing is happening inside you. But because too much has been happening for too long. Emotional numbness is often not emptiness. Sometimes it develops because a person has carried hurt, fear...
Not because it removes ego or makes someone automatically humble, but because visualization intensifies emotion. When a person can vividly picture a scene, the body often reacts more strongly, which is why scary...
Free will does not mean you choose every detail of life. You may think you freely chose the color of your clothing, but from a Chabad Chassidus perspective, that is not free will at all. Personality, mood, taste...
It seems to suggest something deeper about feminine strength. On Tu B'Av, the women did not wait passively for relationship to happen. They prepared. And they spoke first: "Young man, please lift up your eyes and see...
chose to be known through a world of personality. Not because He needs personality. Because He desires revealed goodness. A human being has thoughts, words, feelings, choices, limits, struggles, and relationships...
A person says: "I have gifts, but they were given to me. If someone else had my abilities, they would do even more with them." That is humility. Real humility does not make a person disappear. It makes a person more...
The World of Souls is Not an Escape From Responsibility The Talmud says: "Fortunate is the one who comes here [to the world of souls] with his Torah learning still in his hand." – Rabbi Alexandri appeared to R' Acha...
means transforming shame into responsibility and relationship by realizing: "Without belief in a good infinite Creator, shame often becomes too heavy to face. That is how human psychology works. The nervous system...
He is infinite, complete, beyond change, beyond need. But from our side, His presence in this world can be revealed or hidden. It can be shown clearly. Or it can be distorted by selfishness, cruelty, ego, and...
ignoring a problem can feel like a solution. "When depression or anxiety gets out of control, ignoring a problem can feel like a solution" Not because the person is lazy. Not because they do not care. Because their...
just because they know more. They live wisely when they develop the feelings that make wisdom possible. Awe is one of those feelings. Awe is not just inspiration. It is a blend of sadness, fear, and wonder. Sadness...
based on the Hebrew Bible, do not describe the Messiah as only a great righteous individual. The Talmud says: "If Moshiach is among the living, he is like Rabbi Yehudah HaNasi. If he is among those who have passed...
The Messiah is not described in the Talmud as a random righteous individual. The Talmud says: "If Moshiach is among the living, he is like Rabbi Yehudah HaNasi. If he is among those who have passed away, he is like...
Miracles are not just events. They are also reflections of what people are able to feel. – Based on a Midrash. A relationship with the Creator begins with awe. Awe is a blend of sadness, fear, and wonder. It is the...
Having an opinion does not mean you are in relationship with anyone. Survival mode can still have a lot of opinions. It can judge quickly. It can explain a lot. It can argue with confidence. It can sound engaged. But...
Your nervous system is always attaching to something. It has to. If it's not attached to awareness of the infinite Creator, it will attach to whatever feels strongest: fear control ego loops distraction love of money...
Many people say "everyone is greedy" as if it's just a fact. But that statement often hides something. It quietly removes responsibility from the people with the most power. Because if everyone is greedy, then no one...
does not hear "feelings" the way a healthy person does. They hear it as a threat. Because in their mindset, relationships are about control, not connection. So when someone starts talking about feelings, they don't...
