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Guides to Jewish Wisdom and Psychology Education

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An important idea: The purpose of life is relationship. The strengths of the soul are awe and love, for the body it is pleasure, together they give a deeper felt awareness of G-ds Essence, unconditional love itself, love by nature wants relationship, that’s a reason why we exist, to give relationship.

Why would an Infinite creator want a relationship with a human? B/c He is good and really kind, “we can’t imagine His humility” – the Yanuka.

Relationship isn’t a need for the Creator. It’s how truth is expressed.
Relationship is how truth becomes real. Because truth needs expression.
It’s about expressing what is already true.

You’ve got to read 20+ of my posts linked below to better understand what I mean in this introduction, based on chassidus.


The idea that the Creator of universe is unconditional love itself means he really wants a relationship with your body/nervous system, and His wanting is infinite, it doesn’t stop because of who you are.

One can think about how the Creator does or doesn’t exist for a whole life, or one can practice relationship with Him, it doesn’t mean one should convert to a religion.

When a finite being practices relationship with an Infinite one, and trusts He is good, the finite being feels awe, joy and bliss. If there isn’t trust the infinite being is good then shame and fear become dominant felt experiences.

All relationships with the Infinite are able to be guided by the same structure, the meditation that works for me to feel awe may not work for you, awe is still apart of the structure. Awe is a blend of sadness from noticing the distance, fear and wonder, there are an infinite amount of structures for felt awe, it can be more wonder focused, more sadness and less wonder, etc. There is awe that is based on trust and awe without trust.

If sadness is missing from awe then it’s excitement and not awe, the sadness can be about noticing the distance , feeling separate is a type of sadness. Relationship always includes an amount of distance, that’s why there is sadness. There is pre-awe humility and post-awe humility.

There are beliefs/thoughts that increase felt humility and action that increases felt humility, like acts of compassion + boundaries.


Giving your body/nervous system a felt awareness of The Creator is how you give The Creator (Hashem) a relationship in the lowest world, it begins with feeling awe.

When a soul goes back to living in the world of souls, it first self reflects, the ego no longer has control, it can notice harm it caused in relationships, it feels shame, about harm it caused and shame about repair work it didn’t do and shame about not having developed a deeper relationship with the creator, that is hell, as a soul practices compassion/boundaries, the shame clears up, some souls can live with shame for decades or more, life is still more pleasant in the world of souls then this world where there is physical suffering + shame, a piece of a soul may have to return to the physical world for repair work, we are all reincarnations, a soul gets to wander around the world or universe in a state of awe/love with other souls. A soul is a consciousness that has a personality and feels emotions, no physical form.

The Creator built a world where relationship is earned, when we increase unity which happens through relationship work, His goodness becomes more revealed, more blessings are in the world.

I write G-d, because a Jewish tradition is to bury pages in the ground with G-d’s name when they are no longer used, instead of throwing in the garbage, it’s an act of reverence, it helps you feel awe, for there to be no concern of erasing His name, I write G-d, I may want to delete and redo a post.

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How to know if a religion is teaching falsehoods about The Creator? https://nextself.ai/spirituality/a-simple-way-to-spot-falsehood-about-the-creator/ – late jan 2026

How does this era of suffering transform into an era of revealed goodness? https://nextself.ai/spirituality/how-suffering-turns-into-an-era-of-revealed-goodness/

How does the world of souls work? https://nextself.ai/spirituality/in-the-world-of-souls-we-live-inside-what-we-built/

One can’t build self esteem while believing certain Buddhist ideas: https://nextself.ai/spirituality/psychology-is-a-science/ – late jan 2026

Spiritually, there are 5 personality types, 2 of them are connected to wickedness or a different spiritual framework says there are 16 types of personalities, https://nextself.ai/nextself-curriculum/spiritually-there-are-five-basic-personality-types/


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